Weddings Vs Quarantine
In these unprecedented times, more and more couples are taking the advice of both the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC) and the World Health Organization (WHO) to limit group gatherings because of COVID-19. As a result, some couples are either postponing their weddings or considering alternative options. Other couples have adapted to CDC guidelines and held romantic, socially distanced quarantine weddings, with officiants marrying them over video. Couples are using Zoom, Houseparty, Google Hangout and FaceTime to do everything from celebrate their bachelorette parties to participate in wedding ceremonies, toasting from afar with friends and family. New York governor Andrew Cuomo announced that couples in NY state who want to be legally wed will now have the capability to do so virtually: “I am issuing an Executive Order allowing New Yorkers to obtain a marriage license remotely and allowing clerks to perform ceremonies via video conference”.
If you are looking for alternative ways to celebrate think about dressing up that day. Getting dressed up will make your wedding day feel much more meaningful. Wedding dresses and tuxedos aren’t required—but if you want to wear your original outfit, you should! If not, dress up your outfit by wearing your veil or a wedding accessory. Invite your family to drive through your neighborhood while you and your S.O. wave to them from your porch or front lawn. They’ll be thrilled to enjoy the day with you—from a safe distance, of course.
In the mood to hear some wedding party speeches? Organize a virtual cocktail hour with your friends and family. While you might not be able to come together physically, having your loved ones call in to your digital reception is a great way to take back your wedding date. Make sure everyone comes prepared with a toast (or two) to keep things fun. Expecting a bridal shower or planning on hosting one? Have everyone dress up and meet over a video chat. Send the bride flowers or a gift and do it all virtually! Even better, make it a surprise!
Although it’s not what you intended, you’ll want to remember this day for years to come. Savor the memories by snapping pictures of everything: your outfits, the food, your vows scrawled on paper, and even your loved ones if they’re able to drive by your house. Having trouble setting up your desired shoots? Contact your photographer and see if they have any guidelines or advice for snapping a creative picture using even just your phone! Others are available for shoots that adhere to social distancing rules and group gathering guidelines. No matter what option is best for you, don’t forget to document your special day.
Real talk: It’s ok to feel disappointed or upset. Although there are bigger issues in this world it is important acknowledge your feelings and understand that they are valid. Keeping an open mind and speaking to your partner or family is a great way to help you cope. Just remember, when all of this blows over, everyone will still be able to bring your intended wedding day to life.
And, of course, there’s the flip side: If you use this time to find out you and your S/O aren’t right for each other, people breaking up with their partners over video, too.
Dexter Davis Photography and Films has been working with couples for over 20 years. We are here to make your special day as smooth and memorable as possible. We are offering free postponements for any current weddings booked with us. We are happy and willing to work with any couples seeking more information regarding their weddings. We hope you are all well during these difficult times.